Adolescence as a Pivotal Period for Emotion Regulation Development
Jennifer A. Silvers
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Summary

This review emphasizes how parents can be emotional coaches for their teens. Most teens naturally get better at managing feelings as they grow up, but some struggle. This can even lead to mental health problems.

2022

Adolescence as a Pivotal Period for Emotion Regulation Development

Keywords Emotion regulation; Neurodevelopment; Caregiving; Adolescence

Abstract

Adolescence is a dynamic period for the development of emotion regulation. For many individuals, emotion regulation skills improve dramatically during adolescence; however, for some youth, adolescence marks the beginning or worsening of psychopathology characterized by difficulties with emotion regulation. In the present review, I describe evidence that caregiving experiences play an outsized role in shaping interindividual variability in emotion regulation during adolescence. After describing work demonstrating links between caregiving – with an emphasis on parental socialization practices – and emotion regulation outcomes, I characterize our current understanding of how behavioral and neurobiological indices of emotion regulation develop normatively across adolescence. Using cognitive reappraisal as an exemplar emotion regulation strategy, I outline ways that caregiving might impact interindividual variability in emotion regulation neurodevelopment. I conclude by identifying two key future directions for adolescent emotion regulation research.

Introduction

Adolescence is a dynamic period for the development of emotion regulation (ER), a collection of implicit and explicit skills that can be used to monitor, evaluate, and modify emotional responses in accordance with one's goals. Key developmental tasks in adolescence – including achieving greater independence from caregivers who scaffold ER in childhood, and navigating significant social, cognitive, and biological changes – pose significant self-regulatory challenges. Many individuals respond to these challenges by strengthening and refining their ER skills, but for some, adolescence is marked by emergent or worsening difficulties with ER and associated psychopathology. What factors contribute to normative improvements in ER during adolescence? Likewise, what explains phenotypic heterogeneity in ER during this period? Here, I submit that caregivers socialize ER practices Fig. 1, which contributes to ER development in adolescence. Next, I will suggest that adolescence is a period wherein ER strategies – with a focus on cognitive reappraisal, which involves thinking about emotional stimuli differently so as to change their affective import, as an exemplar strategy – are honed in accordance with socialization experiences as well as intrinsic factors. Finally, I will conclude by outlining future directions for the field.

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Caregivers shape emotion regulation processes across development

Influential theoretical models posit that parents influence emotion in general and ER in particular across multiple mechanisms and timescales [5, 6, 7∗∗]. Cumulatively, this work has revealed that mere parental presence can powerfully regulate children's emotional behavior, physiology, and neurobiology[8, 9, 10, 11]. Beyond simply being present, parents also actively engage in “emotion socialization behaviors” (ESBs) that include modeling and coaching their children's emotional behavior, as well as setting the emotional tone for their family context [6,7]. Unsurprisingly, a parent's own ER skills, their parenting behaviors, and the broader emotional context in which a child is raised tend to be highly intercorrelated. As such, a key theme in contemporary parent-child ER research is to formally parse the contributions of various environmental inputs on child ER. One impressive example of this comes from a recent study that sought to decompose the relative influence of parent ER and child adversity exposure on child ER [12]. Strikingly, Milojevich and colleagues found that parent ER continued to predict child ER after controlling for adversity exposure, but not the other way around. This finding, together with work linking parent ER skills to optimal caregiving [13], suggests that improving parent ER skills could be an indirect but powerful mechanism for promoting positive ER development in youth, and particularly in youth at risk for ER difficulties due to adversity exposure [14, 15, 16]. One way that parent ER skills can impact children's ER development is through the ESBs they use [17, 18, 19]. Cross-sectional data has shown that “positive” parental ESBs (i.e., caregiver warmth and emotional sensitivity) are associated with better ER outcomes in youth (see Ref. [7] for a review), ranging from more frequent use of reappraisal in early-middle childhood [20], to better psychosocial adjustment in adolescence [21]. More recently, longitudinal studies have built upon this knowledge base to demonstrate that positive parent ESBs (typically assessed in childhood or early adolescence) confer better ER and psychosocial outcomes in both typically developing youth as well as youth with psychiatric diagnoses [17,21, 22, 23, 24]. For example, one recent study found that positive parental ESBs at age 5 predicted better socioemotional adjustment at age 15, and notably, that this relationship was explained by enhanced ER at age 10 [25]. The temporal sequencing of this study suggests that parental ESBs are causing improvements in child ER, and that childhood caregiving practices continue to impact wellbeing into adolescence. Relatedly, a new line of research suggests that parental ESBs exert differential effects on child ER depending on developmental stage. For example, one recent study found that while general forms of parental emotional support (displaying warmth and acceptance) was associated with better ER in both older and younger adolescents, hands-on parental support (e.g., emotional coaching) benefited only younger adolescents [26]. These results suggest that more active forms of parental support are beneficial at earlier stages of development but likely offer diminishing returns as children seek out more emotional autonomy in adolescence.

Complementing the aforementioned developmental analyses on parental ESBs are a growing number of studies using neuroimaging methods to uncover how parental ESBs impact specific features of ER neurodevelopment in adolescence. Both extreme forms of caregiving adversity (e.g., deprivation) and normative variations in caregiving experiences (e.g., different parent-child attachment styles) influence development of prefrontal-amygdala circuitry [27,28]. Given that prefrontal-amygdala circuitry is critical for supporting ER in adults, such findings suggest that caregivers externally scaffold ER development and sculpt ER circuitry in childhood until individuals are neurodevelopmentally mature enough to self-regulate in adolescence [29]. At present, very few neuroimaging studies have specifically examined the effects of parental ESBs on ER neurodevelopment. However, preliminary evidence suggests that exposure to negative parental ESBs in early childhood presages negative medial prefrontal (mPFC)-amygdala connectivity (a more “adult-like” neurophenotype) in response to emotional stimuli in late childhood and adolescence [30,31]. These findings together with work in youth exposed to caregiving adversity, suggest that caregiving experiences dynamically adjust the developmental pacing of mPFC-amygdala circuitry involved in implicit ER processes (e.g., extinction learning) [27]. Given theoretical and empirical evidence that neural circuits supporting implicit ER develop prior to those underlying explicit ER (e.g., cognitive reappraisal), this could suggest that parents scaffold implicit ER development in childhood, which in turn supports the development of explicit ER in adolescence [4,32].

Neurodevelopment of ER in adolescence

While children rely heavily on caregivers to regulate their emotions, adolescents are increasingly likely to turn to friends or themselves to regulate emotion. As adolescents change in their propensity to self-regulate, so too does the way that adolescents self-regulate change. Consistent with characterizations of adolescence as a critical period for the development of higher-order cognitive processes [33], adolescents use cognitive self-regulatory strategies a higher proportion of the time than children and are more flexible at switching between different cognitive strategies as well [34,35]. Age-related differences are apparent not only in terms of how adolescents use classes of ER strategies (e.g., cognitive strategies), but also specific strategies (e.g., cognitive reappraisal). Here, I focus on the strategy of cognitive reappraisal because it’s is associated with mental health [36], is modifiable by intervention [37], and has been studied in developmental populations using multiple modalities [4]. Reappraisal capacity (i.e., the ability to reappraise effectively) and the tendency to use reappraisal to regulate emotion in everyday life are relatively independent of one another and are often assessed using different methods [38]. While cross-sectional studies have yielded mixed age results regarding reappraisal tendency in adolescence, longitudinal data suggest that age does not predict intra-individual changes in the tendency to use reappraisal [39, 40, 41]. By contrast, studies examining reappraisal capacity demonstrate steep age-related improvements from childhood through mid-adolescence that plateau during late adolescence (though notably, no published longitudinal studies of reappraisal capacity exist) [32,42,43]. Together, these findings suggest that individuals hone their reappraisal skills in adolescence but do not necessarily use said skills more frequently.

Neuroimaging research can provide a useful mechanistic perspective on how and when adolescents acquire the ability to reappraise [44]. Prior research in adults has suggested that reappraisal is instantiated by robust recruitment of dorsal and lateral prefrontal regions known to support cognitive control processes (dorsomedial, dorsolateral, and ventrolateral prefrontal cortex), and that this prefrontal engagement in turn attenuates amygdala responses to affective stimuli [45]. In childhood, however, reappraisal appears to increase, rather than decrease, amygdala activity [32,46]. These findings suggest that reappraisal might be counterproductive for children – though some preliminary evidence suggests that children can reappraise more effectively when assisted by their parent [10]. In adolescence, reappraisal begins to attenuate amygdala responses with continued linear age-related decreases in amygdala responses observed until young adulthood [32,47,48]. Such findings dovetail nicely with behavioral evidence that reappraisal buffers against negative mental health outcomes in adolescence, but not necessarily childhood [34]. The emergence of reappraisal as an effective strategy in adolescence appears linked to the fact that adolescents recruit dorsal and lateral prefrontal regions to support reappraisal [32,48, 49, 50], though said prefrontal recruitment continues to increase with age across adolescence [32,50]. One recent study suggests that the overall magnitude of activation of lateral prefrontal cortex may be just one feature of reappraisal-related neurodevelopment, and that the extent to which specific subregions of ventrolateral prefrontal cortex are selectively activated may be particularly predictive of reappraisal skill [51]. These findings cumulatively suggest that reappraisal skills may promote mental health – but only once the neural machinery needed to support such skills is in place – and that functional specialization in ventrolateral prefrontal cortex may be a key neurodevelopmental ingredient in supporting reappraisal skill acquisition.

At present, it is relatively unknown what experiential factors contribute to behavioral and neural markers of reappraisal ability in adolescence. However, one intriguing possibility is that parent ESBs (e.g., caregivers regularly modeling reappraisal use) provide adolescents with rich ER experiences across development, that directly or indirectly tune lateral prefrontal development and associated reappraisal skills. While no work has explicitly tested this hypothesis, there is evidence that parent ER skills positively predict child ER skills via prefrontal synchrony [52], and also that negative parental ESBs predict less engagement of lateral prefrontal regulatory regions [28,53], thus supporting the notion that parental inputs modify lateral prefrontal function involved in ER. There are also data from adults suggesting that repeated exposure to reappraisal elicits more constrained and specific patterns of ventrolateral recruitment in adults [54], underscoring the fact that repeated exposure to an ER strategy can sculpt associated regulatory circuitry. Together, these datapoints imply that caregiving practices shape a youth's ER context and that this may in turn tune lateral prefrontal circuitry involved in reappraisal. Among other things, this suggests that one reason youth who have experienced caregiving adversity (i.e., abuse, neglect, or institutional caregiving) are at risk for ER difficulties is because they lack the means of learning ER strategies from a caregiver. This together with evidence that youth who acquire reappraisal skills in spite of their caregiving adversity history are more likely to be resilient again psychopathology than those who do not [55,56], suggests that training adolescents exposed to caregiving adversity to use strategies like reappraisal might be a particularly effective means of buffering against mental health symptoms.

Conclusions and future directions for research on adolescent ER development

In the first section of this review, I described how caregiving experiences and specifically parental ESBs, tune ER development. I subsequently summarized behavioral and neuroscientific evidence about how ER ability, with an emphasis on reappraisal, develops across adolescence but also differs substantially between individuals. In this final section, I will briefly outline two key future directions for research on adolescent ER development. The first future direction for the field will be to more carefully consider the social context when investigating adolescent ER. This is critical not only because social situations are particularly evocative for adolescents [42], but also because social ties may represent a relatively untapped resource for improving ER skills in adolescence. A rich body of literature examining caregiver interventions in young children[57], as well as emerging work examining friendships in young adults [58], suggest that close relationships can be capitalized on to teach and enhance ER skills – including reappraisal. Despite the fact that adolescents are highly sensitive to social influences (particularly from peers), far less research has sought to understand or improve adolescent ER through a social lens. Future basic research might benefit from carefully examining how parents and friends differentially modulate ER processes as individuals progress from childhood to adolescence to adulthood. At the same time, translational research might test whether adolescents show greater gains in ER if interventions are delivered directly, or through friends or caregivers. A second future direction will be to leverage longitudinal neuroimaging studies to characterize developmental mechanisms underlying ER development. Longitudinal questionnaire and behavioral research have significantly informed our understanding of ER development [7], but there remains a scarcity of longitudinal neuroimaging research examining ER. It will be critical to fill this knowledge gap to better characterize normative developmental change as well as how caregiving and other contextual factors mechanistically shape divergent ER trajectories. For example, longitudinal designs could be leveraged to test which specific dimensions of caregiving in childhood predict neural markers of ER skill in adolescence. Such work has the capacity to not only inform our scientific understanding of adolescent ER, but also to optimize interventions during a pivotal period for mental health and wellbeing.

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Abstract

Adolescence is a dynamic period for the development of emotion regulation. For many individuals, emotion regulation skills improve dramatically during adolescence; however, for some youth, adolescence marks the beginning or worsening of psychopathology characterized by difficulties with emotion regulation. In the present review, I describe evidence that caregiving experiences play an outsized role in shaping interindividual variability in emotion regulation during adolescence. After describing work demonstrating links between caregiving – with an emphasis on parental socialization practices – and emotion regulation outcomes, I characterize our current understanding of how behavioral and neurobiological indices of emotion regulation develop normatively across adolescence. Using cognitive reappraisal as an exemplar emotion regulation strategy, I outline ways that caregiving might impact interindividual variability in emotion regulation neurodevelopment. I conclude by identifying two key future directions for adolescent emotion regulation research.

The Role of Caregivers and Neurodevelopment in Adolescent Emotion Regulation

Caregivers Shape Emotion Regulation Processes

Caregivers play a crucial role in shaping emotion regulation (ER) development across childhood and adolescence. Parental presence can regulate children's emotional responses, and parents actively engage in emotion socialization behaviors (ESBs) that model and coach ER strategies. Research suggests that parent ER skills are associated with better ER outcomes in children, even after accounting for adversity exposure.

Positive parental ESBs, such as warmth and emotional sensitivity, are linked to enhanced ER in youth, including increased use of reappraisal and better psychosocial adjustment. Longitudinal studies have demonstrated that positive ESBs in childhood predict improved ER and well-being in adolescence. Notably, different forms of parental support may be more beneficial at different developmental stages.

Neuroimaging studies have revealed that caregiving experiences influence the development of prefrontal-amygdala circuitry involved in ER. Extreme forms of caregiving adversity and variations in caregiving styles can alter the developmental pacing of these neural circuits, suggesting that caregivers scaffold ER development until individuals are mature enough to self-regulate.

Neurodevelopment of ER in Adolescence

Adolescents increasingly rely on themselves for ER and utilize more sophisticated cognitive strategies. Cognitive reappraisal, the ability to reinterpret emotional stimuli, is a key ER strategy that develops significantly during adolescence. While the tendency to use reappraisal remains stable across adolescence, reappraisal capacity improves markedly.

Neuroimaging research has shown that reappraisal in adolescence involves increased recruitment of prefrontal regions that support cognitive control. This prefrontal engagement attenuates amygdala responses to emotional stimuli, indicating that reappraisal becomes more effective as adolescents develop. The functional specialization of ventrolateral prefrontal cortex may be particularly important for reappraisal skill acquisition.

Experiential factors, such as parental ESBs, may contribute to the development of reappraisal ability. Positive parental ESBs have been linked to increased prefrontal synchrony and engagement during ER tasks. Repeated exposure to reappraisal may also refine and constrain the neural circuitry involved in this strategy.

Future Directions

Future research should prioritize the following:

  • Examining the Social Context: Investigating how parents and friends influence ER processes across development, as social ties may provide opportunities to enhance ER skills in adolescence.

  • Longitudinal Neuroimaging Studies: Characterizing normative developmental changes in ER and identifying how caregiving and other factors mechanistically shape divergent ER trajectories.

Understanding the interplay between caregiving, neurodevelopment, and ER in adolescence is crucial for optimizing interventions and promoting mental health and well-being during this pivotal period.

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Abstract

Adolescence is a dynamic period for the development of emotion regulation. For many individuals, emotion regulation skills improve dramatically during adolescence; however, for some youth, adolescence marks the beginning or worsening of psychopathology characterized by difficulties with emotion regulation. In the present review, I describe evidence that caregiving experiences play an outsized role in shaping interindividual variability in emotion regulation during adolescence. After describing work demonstrating links between caregiving – with an emphasis on parental socialization practices – and emotion regulation outcomes, I characterize our current understanding of how behavioral and neurobiological indices of emotion regulation develop normatively across adolescence. Using cognitive reappraisal as an exemplar emotion regulation strategy, I outline ways that caregiving might impact interindividual variability in emotion regulation neurodevelopment. I conclude by identifying two key future directions for adolescent emotion regulation research.

How Parents and Friends Shape Emotion Regulation in Adolescence

Caregivers Tune Emotion Regulation Development

Parents play a crucial role in shaping how their children regulate their emotions. From a young age, parents provide a safe and supportive environment where children can learn to manage their feelings. Parents also actively engage in "emotion socialization behaviors," such as modeling healthy ways to express emotions and coaching their children through emotional situations.

Research has shown that positive parental emotion socialization behaviors, such as warmth and sensitivity, are linked to better emotion regulation outcomes in children. For example, children whose parents regularly use reappraisal, a strategy for changing the way they think about emotional situations, tend to use this strategy more effectively themselves.

Moreover, studies using brain imaging techniques have revealed that parental emotion socialization behaviors influence the development of brain regions involved in emotion regulation. This suggests that parents provide a supportive environment that helps children develop the neural circuitry necessary for effective emotion regulation.

Neurodevelopment of Emotion Regulation in Adolescence

As children enter adolescence, they become increasingly independent and rely less on their parents for emotional support. During this period, adolescents develop more sophisticated cognitive abilities, including the ability to use cognitive strategies to regulate their emotions.

One important cognitive strategy is cognitive reappraisal. This strategy involves reinterpreting emotional situations in a way that reduces their negative impact. Studies have shown that adolescents use cognitive reappraisal more frequently and effectively than children.

Brain imaging research has also revealed that the neural circuitry supporting cognitive reappraisal continues to develop throughout adolescence. Specifically, adolescents show increased activation of brain regions involved in cognitive control, which helps them to effectively reappraise emotional situations.

The Role of Social Context in Adolescent Emotion Regulation

While parents continue to play an important role in adolescent emotion regulation, social relationships with friends and peers become increasingly influential. Adolescents are particularly sensitive to social situations, and they may turn to their friends for support and guidance in managing their emotions.

Future research should explore how parents and friends differentially influence emotion regulation processes in adolescence. Additionally, interventions aimed at improving adolescent emotion regulation could benefit from considering the social context and leveraging the support of close relationships.

Future Directions for Research

Longitudinal studies using brain imaging techniques are needed to better understand the developmental mechanisms underlying emotion regulation in adolescence. This research can help identify how caregiving and other contextual factors shape individual differences in emotion regulation trajectories.

Such knowledge can inform the development of targeted interventions to support adolescents who struggle with emotion regulation, which is crucial for their mental health and well-being.

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Abstract

Adolescence is a dynamic period for the development of emotion regulation. For many individuals, emotion regulation skills improve dramatically during adolescence; however, for some youth, adolescence marks the beginning or worsening of psychopathology characterized by difficulties with emotion regulation. In the present review, I describe evidence that caregiving experiences play an outsized role in shaping interindividual variability in emotion regulation during adolescence. After describing work demonstrating links between caregiving – with an emphasis on parental socialization practices – and emotion regulation outcomes, I characterize our current understanding of how behavioral and neurobiological indices of emotion regulation develop normatively across adolescence. Using cognitive reappraisal as an exemplar emotion regulation strategy, I outline ways that caregiving might impact interindividual variability in emotion regulation neurodevelopment. I conclude by identifying two key future directions for adolescent emotion regulation research.

How Parents and Friends Help Teens Manage Their Emotions

How Parents Help

Parents play a big role in how children learn to control their emotions. From the time you're a baby, they help you calm down when you're upset. As you get older, they teach you how to deal with your feelings in healthy ways.

For example, if a child is feeling sad, the parents might encourage them to talk about it or do something they enjoy. If a child is feeling angry, they might help their child find ways to calm down, like taking deep breaths or counting to 10.

How Your Brain Develops for Emotion Control

As a person enters their teenage years, the brain is still developing the ability to control emotions effectively. One important skill teens learn is called "cognitive reappraisal." This means being able to change the way one thinks about a situation to make it less upsetting.

For example, if someone is nervous about a test, they might reappraise the situation by telling themself that they've studied hard and that they're going to do their best. This can help them feel less anxious and more confident.

How Parents and Friends Can Help Develop Emotional Control

Parents and friends can help a teenager practice and improve their emotional control skills. They can provide teens with support and encouragement when they're struggling. They can also model healthy ways of coping with emotions.

For example, if your friend is feeling stressed, you might help them reappraise the situation by pointing out the positive aspects or suggesting different ways to look at it. By helping others, you're also practicing your own emotion control skills.

Why Scientists Research Emotional Control

It's important for scientists to understand how the brain develops and how people learn to control their emotions as they get older. When researchers learn about the brain and emotions, they can find better ways to support people's mental health and development.

Some future ways that scientists can improve their knowledge in this area is studying people as they develop over time, taking pictures of their brains at different ages, and studying the effect of social ties like friends and family on the development of emotional control.

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Abstract

Adolescence is a dynamic period for the development of emotion regulation. For many individuals, emotion regulation skills improve dramatically during adolescence; however, for some youth, adolescence marks the beginning or worsening of psychopathology characterized by difficulties with emotion regulation. In the present review, I describe evidence that caregiving experiences play an outsized role in shaping interindividual variability in emotion regulation during adolescence. After describing work demonstrating links between caregiving – with an emphasis on parental socialization practices – and emotion regulation outcomes, I characterize our current understanding of how behavioral and neurobiological indices of emotion regulation develop normatively across adolescence. Using cognitive reappraisal as an exemplar emotion regulation strategy, I outline ways that caregiving might impact interindividual variability in emotion regulation neurodevelopment. I conclude by identifying two key future directions for adolescent emotion regulation research.

How Parents and Friends Help Kids Control Their Emotions

How Parents Help

When a child is little, parents help them calm down when they're upset. They might give a hug, talk about feelings, or help their child find a way to relax. As kids get older, they start to learn how to control their emotions on their own. But parents can still help in important ways.

Parents can teach their kids how to use different strategies to manage their emotions. For example, they might show them how to "rethink" a situation that's making a child angry or sad. This means changing the way the child thinks about it so that it isn't as upsetting.

Parents can also create a safe and supportive environment where their kids feel comfortable talking about their feelings. This helps kids learn how to understand and manage their emotions better.

How Your Brain Develops to Control Emotions

As a person gets older, the brain changes in ways that help control emotions better. You start to use more of your "thinking brain" (the prefrontal cortex) to calm down your "emotional brain" (the amygdala).

One important strategy that your brain learns to use is called "reappraisal." This means thinking about a situation differently to change how you feel about it. For example, if you're nervous about a test, you might reappraise it as an opportunity to show what you know.

How Friends Can Help

As you get older, your friends can also help you with your emotions. You can talk to them about your feelings, and they can offer support and advice. Friends can also help you practice using different emotion regulation strategies, like reappraisal.

Scientific Research

It's important for scientists to understand how the brain develops and how people learn to control their emotions as they get older. When researchers learn about the brain and emotions, they can find better ways to support people's mental health and development.

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Silvers, J. A. (2022). Adolescence as a pivotal period for emotion regulation development. Current Opinion in Psychology, 44, 258–263. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.copsyc.2021.09.023

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